It’s inevitable that everyone will misbehave. By taking the necessary precautions you can reduce this tendency and keep it to a minimum. You can learn to behave naturally in public by reading on.
Always be aware of the volume you are emitting. It is important to be able control your volume. Take a breath and pause when your voice becomes too loud. Your ability to present your ideas in a calm tone is always respected. When you are aware of your level of noise, you can reduce it. You can control your noise level by asking yourself if it is really necessary to say something. Is the volume of other people’s voices similar to yours? When you notice that someone is staring or reacting negatively towards you, you should behave accordingly.
Setting specific and long-term goals is a great way to develop self-control. When you are focused on the long-term, you will be able to behave well now. This is because you don’t wish to sabotage your future plans by your current behavior. You will master self-denial when you have a goal in mind. You can deny yourself a vodka bottle if you want to. Do not allow yourself to sleep more than 12 consecutive hours per day. Before you start tackling more difficult goals, set some easy ones. Your goals should be written down and taped to the bedside. This will remind you of them each morning. Be sure to include any behavioral goals you want, such as avoiding rudeness or bad behavior in public.
Use language carefully. Select your words carefully and wisely. It is not appropriate to use swear words or offensive language in public. Avoid unnecessary arguments, which can result in heated words. If you have nothing nice to say, it’s better to stay quiet. You can use crude or even more relaxed language with your closest friends. You must observe the circumstances to determine the appropriate language. It’s important to use appropriate language when around your coworkers or bosses.
